Get to Know Each Other
You don’t bring your family along on a first date, ever. Something like this could scare away any potential lover. You don’t bring your parents, you don’t bring your siblings, and you don’t bring your children. There’s a time and place for everything, and a first date isn’t the time to get to know the family.
You should get to know each other before you get to know the family! Clearly, this guy had other plans in mind. We’re actually not sure he was even interested in dating this girl; it sounds like he was looking for a housewife or a maid, or maybe even a babysitter rather than a lover or a life partner. He was looking for an instant wife.